First, I will explain that “Yoni” in Indian is the name of the female genital organ and its meaning is the sacred place, and in my view, it is more pleasant to call the female genitalia and describe it than the other common and non-flattering names in Hebrew and other languages.

So what is a really Yoni massage?

What differs it from a simple touch with the fingers and makes it into a sacred and healing ritual? What are the benefits and why should you pay attention when you make the decision to undergo such a ceremony?

On the mental/spiritual/energetic level, Yoni is the second center or the second heart of the woman, as I experience it, and here it becomes more complex.

What is the connection between massage and energy stimulation in the body?

The energetic flow of the woman begins from the Yoni and enters through it and continues up through the uterus and the heart and up, and from this very direction the flow is collected into the Yoni, which for this matter is like an energetic strainer. A range of traumas and injuries, both physical and non-direct. It can be a word that a spouse/parent/ friend said or just a person from the street that said something to her or an experience not directly related to her and the energy just got stuck in Yoni.

Over the years, different experiences accumulate in Yoni, which sometimes affects the woman’s sexual behavior and feelings. Feelings and sensations of fear, guilt, shame, and embarrassment begin to settle and over time, an emotional contraction is created. That often becomes physical, and this can manifest in all sorts of phenomena such as vaginal contraction and dryness, burning and scratching in sexual intercourse and “inviting” various diseases to enter.

The Yoni massage touches the temple and heals all the layers of the woman. The woman’s consent to the touch in Yoni by a masseur as well as by a spouse is actually an invitation to enter the sanctity and in my eyes, this is the only way to touch a Yoni, holiness, compassion, love, and healing, meditation that is prayer.

This is what distinguishes the message from just playing with the fingers to sacred and healing ceremony, intention, understanding, and knowledge.

The sacred ceremony is divided into several stages: one can be passed through one massage in tastings or one stage is passed in separate messages. The stages are in order: a gentle massage, a message to the holy spot, a special message to release traumas, a female ejaculation ritual, and a cervical orgasm.

What does Tantra have to do with it?
Much of the ceremony is also devoted to transforming the sexual energy into love and lifting it up to the heart. The massage/ritual begins with no contact and is dedicated to studying breathing and energizing the body. There is a physical exercise to relax the body so that the good energy can flow freely, and the stuck and traumatic energy will be released from the body during the message that will come. After the breathing and exercises, begins a full body massage and pressure at energetic points that help the energy to move and release. And finally reach the temple, in the Yoni itself, we touch from the outside and inside there are additional pressure points that stimulate and release the energy, in the high stages of the ceremony you can work with orgasm and learn the difference between female masculine orgasm female feminine and how to rise and move and to Meditate through orgasms.

It is important to note that Yoni massage does not aim at pleasure, and yet it can happen and it is blessed, but it is only the result of the sacred process and the release of the stuck energies.

For whom the Yoni massage is designed for?
The message I described has many advantages in healing the release and empowerment of women and sexuality and therefore is intended for every woman regardless of her sexual abilities, her spiritual level, and her personal status, single or marital. Also, the Yoni massage can be learned by couples who wish to heal each other through these rituals.

What should you pay attention when you make a decision to undergo such a ceremony?

* It is worth checking out the real desire behind the request for the ceremony, in order to be precise.

* It is important to undergo it in a ritual and professional manner with a person who is capable of dealing with Lilith and the demons that emerged during the healing process.

* Unfortunately, many women have suffered severe injuries and are carrying them in their bodies and souls and during the massage, these things are released and healed, but it is important to check the readiness to deal with these injuries and to know the limits and go slowly.

* It is important to feel the energy of a male therapist that creates polarity for female energy and thus stimulates the healing that comes from a man, and sometimes it is good to feel the feminine energy which will flood and allow other things.

* Pleasure is a blessed thing, but focusing on the pleasure without energetic spiritual work can lead to a sense of emptiness and exploitation after a while.

* The space during the ceremony is dedicated to the woman only, a space in which she can devote herself and express herself freely without having to give back to anyone.

* Tantric massages are part of a whole spiritual way that changes a life, and it is recommended to undergo the massage as part of this path.

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On the other hand, when people experience the Tantra through me or through other teachers, either in person or through a workshop, then the reactions become: “How did I not do it before? There is life before Tantra and after Tantra”

So what’s going on here?
How does it happen that on the one hand, people are undergoing such a fundamental change in their lives and on the other hand, there is a “negative” name for Tantra?
It may be a little long, but anyone looking for a real change in his life is worth reading to the end.

They say that Tantra is a quick way to enlightenment

But as you may know, when you travel quickly, there are also accidents, and in my opinion, this is part of the matter, and if we are aware of this, we can enjoy the wonders of the road and its fruits.

In order to understand better the problem, we need to know what makes Tantra different from other spiritual ways. In the Tantra Way, we work and awaken the life energy in various exercises, along with the awakening of this strong and powerful energy. We experience full sensory awakening. We become alert to our life and our environment. It happens through our physical senses [hearing, smell, taste, touch] and through our energetic senses. We begin to feel our heart more in addition to our energetic and emotional physical bodies. We become more sensory beings, and out of all the awakening in this sense, sexual energy also arises and we become sensual creatures.

Being a sensual creature is a wonderful thing, but it is also a trap for those who follow this path, because it is actually a junction on the way. The sensory awakening and sexual arousal are only the results of deep work in which we remove different barriers from ourselves such as anger and shame and it is important to remember that sexuality is only one layer of a whole puzzle that makes up our lives. When you get stuck in the sexual level, things gradually become empty and preoccupied. In sex, you become obsessed because you try again and again to recreate the thrill that was when the senses opened to us after years of closure and deprivation.

Anyone who has experienced a long-standing relationship, whether it was monogamous or polyamorous, will tell you that sex is an important part but not the main thing in creating a strong relationship that contains and grows. So does our personal life. Sex is an important part of our lives, but not the only thing that will give us satisfaction and depth in our lives. In fact, good sex is the result of a good relationship or a full and satisfying personal life and not vice versa!

How is all this related to the bad reputation that went out to Tantra?

When some of those who walk along the path are “stuck” in the stage of sexuality, create a space in which the preoccupation with sexuality it becomes dangerous. It creates a fertile ground for vulnerability and even exploitation of “new marchers” in the way, promises and false charms of enlightenment through sexual liberation that has no spiritual basis. This false promise for enlightenment, tempts people who yearn to heal their past wounds and are swept away to a space that will give them a temporary pleasure followed by disappointment, which will lead to the bad rumors about the Tantra. Some of which are true to what happened to them. But this is not Tantra, and if we add to it all the pain that already exists around the subject of sexuality in the world and the resentment between women and men, easily Tantra becomes a punching bag and a scapegoat of all the victims, and a wondrous road disappears from our eyes in a fog of rumors and resentment.

Yes, Tantra influences and transforms many layers in our lives, including sexuality, and with the help of Tantra, we can also reach orgasms of this kind and others and maybe men who control ejaculation and desired sexual peaks. Nether the less, these peaks are only the result of deep work and liberation and healing of the past and these sexual heights. The enhancement of creativity in our lives, the intensification of desires and feelings, the removal of shame and guilt from our soul and our bodies, and many other peaks without which the peak of sexuality would not have been achieved at all or not fully experienced.

We can be champions in bed, but what is it worth, if we do not feel our heart. If we can not communicate our feelings and take responsibility. If we can not contain the other without going into self-blame… we will find ourselves chasing the thrill and when it is over we will look for the next one in an exhausting chase and not over.

Tantra is a way of truth and meditation, of deep inner work, of ancient and fascinating rituals, a path that leads to growth, prosperity and spiritual development.

I invite you to come and get to know a magical and wondrous way filled with ancient wisdom and march towards a life filled with happiness and joy with an open and loving heart.

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